5 Ways to Personalize your Elopement

 

It’s easy to feel like you can’t personalize your elopement as much as a big traditional wedding, but we’re here to tell you that this is false! Just because you are forgoing much of the stress of the large event doesn’t mean you can’t make your small wedding just as personal as you imagined! Here are some tips on how to personalize your intimate wedding ceremony!

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Up-cycle decor!

Are you crafty? You can easily up-cycle an old picture frame or mirror to make a welcome sign for your ceremony! This is an inexpensive way to add some of your personal style.

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Include your Culture

There is no “one way” to wedding planning! If you come from a strong culture, include elements in your wedding day! This may mean a tea ceremony, stomping on glass, jumping a broom, traditional dress, and so many other ways!

Read more about including your culture here!

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Highlight Special Memories

Find a space where you can print and display photos from your relationship that have made your relationship special! This helps people get a better idea of who you are as a couple and what you like to do together!

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Take the time to Include Loved ones Who can’t attend

If someone is unable to attend because of death or distance, you can light a candle in their honor! A memorial candle is a great way to feel someone close. You can also play a special song or read a poem that meant something to your loved one.

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Write Personal Vows

Make your ceremony extra special and personal by taking the time write down your own vows — this will make your actual ceremony so much more intimate when you get to relive your favorite jokes and memories.

Here is a guide to writing your vows!




 
Nicole Berriman

Nicole is the Lead Elopement Concierge at Modern Elopement, bringing her passion for crafting unforgettable experiences to every couple she works with. Since joining the team in 2018, she has helped hundreds of couples create their perfect wedding day, ensuring that each celebration is as magical as can be.

Her favorite island is Oahu and she finds inspiration in the island's majestic Ko'olau mountains. With a love for travel that has taken her to over 40 countries, she thrives in the great outdoors, particularly on sun-drenched beaches.

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